Tag Archives: eldercare

Strategies for Communicating with Multiple Doctors

Posted on April 13, 2018 by Sue Salach

Years ago I met a woman at a rehab facility while visiting a family member. She was recovering from a stroke and looking forward to getting back home. I acknowledged how well she was doing considering the circumstances. She said … Continue reading →

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Let Go of the Guilt

Posted on March 22, 2018 by Sue Salach

What is Guilt? Unwarranted response to an imagined offense Unless you actually killed someone (which I’m assuming 99.9% of my readers have not) then you are imposing this idea of having “wronged” someone else. Caregivers feel guilty for many reasons, … Continue reading →

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Things I learned by watching YouTube

Posted on March 5, 2018 by Sue Salach

Things I learned by watching YouTube How to take out my old dishwasher & put in a new one How to take out an over-the-stove vent How to take down kitchen shelves How to feed someone through a feeding tube … Continue reading →

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Snow Days

Posted on February 9, 2018 by Sue Salach

Remember the excitement you felt as a kid when you got a snow day?! Your imagination went wild as you fantasized of the snow fort you would make next to your perfect snow man. Unfortunately as we age, snow days … Continue reading →

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Choose your Attitude – You are in Control

Posted on February 6, 2018 by Sue Salach

I love this story. I’m not sure who wrote it, but I do know it is always inspiring when I get in the way of my own joy. A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed each … Continue reading →

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Dealing with the “Negative Nancie’s” in our lives

Posted on January 22, 2018 by Sue Salach

I love the new terms this generation uses for certain things especially things like, “You’re such a Debbie Downer” or “Negative Nancy.” I just laugh every time I hear one of those comments. What’s not funny is having to live … Continue reading →

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This Job Sucks (and other Important Caregiving Information)

Posted on January 15, 2018 by Sue Salach

While making visiting with a friend who just lost his sister, he shared how difficult it was for him especially as she had chosen him (above her parents, children and other siblings) to be her Power of Attorney (POA). His … Continue reading →

Posted in caregiving, dying, eldercare | Tagged bereavement, breast cancer, cancer, caregiver, caregiver grief, caregiving, dying, eldercare, family dynamics, medical decisions, Medical POA, national breast cancer awareness month, power of attorney, the chosen one | Leave a comment

It’s My Privilege

Posted on December 1, 2017 by Sue Salach

I was recently watching the show The Middle. In the show Frankie has to take care of her mother after a hospital stay. What ensues is a lot of humor and chaos (much like real life caregiving). After much frustration … Continue reading →

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Shifting Priorities

Posted on November 13, 2017 by Sue Salach

Being a family caregiver is a 24/7 job. It’s probably one of the most difficult and thankless jobs one can do. The stress level is off the charts, the pay is non-existent and trying to make time for you is … Continue reading →

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Lessons from a Caregiver – Guest Post

Posted on November 6, 2017 by Sue Salach

Often, we hear that the role of caretaker to the elderly is a stressful one, particularly in situations where one family member is asked to care for another. In cases where Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia are present, this … Continue reading →

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A Fundamental Rule in Caregiving (that no one seems to follow)

Posted on November 1, 2017 by Sue Salach

In honor of National Caregiver Month, I thought this was a great post to start off the month. Please read & share. An essential imperative of caregiving is: Take care of yourself. However; the majority of family caregivers are so … Continue reading →

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6 Things Every Caregiver Caring for Seniors with Vision Problems Must Know

Posted on August 22, 2017 by Sue Salach

As a caregiver, there are a lot of different things you need to keep in check to make sure you are taking care of your seniors in the best way possible. Eye and vision related problems are not only common, … Continue reading →

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Having a Heat Wave

Posted on July 12, 2017 by Sue Salach

Summertime tips for Caregivers Seniors are especially at risk in high heat situations. Large stretches of the USA are experiencing extreme temperatures. Here are some summer heat tips for helping elderly loved ones avoid heat stroke or heat exhaustion Encourage … Continue reading →

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DIY Lessons in Caregiving Part 3 – Ask for Help!

Posted on June 26, 2017 by Sue Salach

I will admit that I am mildly obsessed with the show Flea Market Flip. Though the contestants find the items and come up with the plan of how to reinvent the items, there is a team of professionals who support … Continue reading →

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Guest Post – Bathroom Renovation Tips for Family Caregivers

Posted on March 27, 2017 by Sue Salach

If you have an elderly family member living with you, or are thinking about moving them in, you may want to consider renovating certain facilities and structure in your bathroom to make it more convenient. Not only is this comfortable … Continue reading →

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The Chosen One

Posted on March 13, 2017 by Sue Salach

A friend called me the other day and shared her concerns about being chosen to be the health-care and financial power of attorney for her mother. She had heard me speak on the topic and the challenges associated with the … Continue reading →

Posted in aging, boomers, caregiving, eldercare, health care | Tagged aging, boomers, caregiving, caregiving and stress, eldercare, eldercare attorneys, financial POA, health care, Healthcare, medical, Medical POA, POA, power of attorney | 5 Comments

FYI about POA

Posted on March 1, 2017 by Sue Salach

Medical Power of Attorney (POA) is something each of us, no matter our age, should have. Frequently, people grant POA to their spouse, children or siblings. POA goes into effect only if you are not able to make competent decisions. … Continue reading →

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Strategic Caregiving

Posted on March 1, 2017 by Sue Salach

“I wish I had met you when…,” I hear some variation of this phrase weekly (sometimes daily) from people I meet through networking and personal events. The statement derives from people who have experienced the chaos associated with caring for … Continue reading →

Posted in eldercare | Tagged 5 wishes, aging, eldercare, family caregiving, POA, strategic caregiving, what if | 1 Comment

Fear vs. Fact

Posted on February 7, 2017 by Sue Salach

Originally posted on TheWorkingCaregiver:
When a loved one gets a life altering diagnosis it can be scary. Distressing questions rush through one’s mind such as: will they survive, what are the options, do we need a second opinion, what will…

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Living Each Day with Purpose

Posted on November 28, 2016 by Sue Salach

It has been said that the definition of insanity is “doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” I can relate to this concept. I have found that much of both my business and personal life … Continue reading →

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